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Her-REIA

Invitation Only · Est. Her REIA

Where Deals Are Made Over Dinner.

A quarterly gathering of Her REIA’s most active investors—hosted on yachts, in historic hotels, and at private estates—to build meaningful relationships, broker deals, and shape the future of their communities.

THE GREENBRIER · WHITE SULPHUR SPRINGS, WV PRIVATE YACHT · BOSTON HARBOR THE QUIN · BACK BAY, BOSTON OCEAN REEF CLUB · KEY LARGO, FL THE HAY-ADAMS · WASHINGTON, D.C. THE GREENBRIER · WHITE SULPHUR SPRINGS, WV PRIVATE YACHT · BOSTON HARBOR THE QUIN · BACK BAY, BOSTON OCEAN REEF CLUB · KEY LARGO, FL THE HAY-ADAMS · WASHINGTON, D.C.
"The man who can make two ideas grow where only one grew before deserves as well of his race as the man who can make two blades of grass grow where only one grew before."
The Jeffersonian Principle — the spirit behind every dinner

What Is Supper Club

Not a conference. Not a meetup. A dinner.

Supper Club is a quarterly gathering of Her REIA’s most accomplished investors—women who own, operate, and deploy capital at scale. Inspired by the Jeffersonian Dinner, every gathering is built around one table, one conversation, and the belief that every voice deserves to be heard equally.

Invite Only

Every seat is extended through personal invitation or peer nomination. Membership is not purchased—it is earned.

Quarterly Gatherings

Four exclusive dinners each year held in carefully selected cities with women who actively invest, lead businesses, and build communities.

Extraordinary Venues

Private yachts, historic hotels, luxury estates, and remarkable destinations that create an unforgettable experience.

Confidential by Design

Conversations remain private. The partnerships, investments, and opportunities created at the table extend far beyond dinner.

The Jeffersonian Dinner Format

One Table. One Conversation. Every Voice, Equally Heard.

Thomas Jefferson believed the greatest conversations happened when everyone shared the same table without hierarchy. Supper Club embraces this philosophy by creating meaningful discussions where every member contributes equally while encouraging collaboration, partnerships, and investment opportunities.

01

One Conversation

No side discussions. No phones. No presentations. One question guides the entire evening, allowing every guest to participate.

02

No Hierarchy

There is no head of the table and no featured speaker. Every member’s experience carries equal value.

03

Questions, Not Answers

Each dinner begins with one thought-provoking question designed to inspire meaningful conversation rather than formal presentations.

04

Deals Welcome

Members openly discuss investment opportunities, partnerships, funding, and joint ventures throughout the evening.

05

Chatham House Rules

Everything discussed remains confidential. Privacy and trust are the foundation of every gathering.

06

Community Mandate

Each dinner concludes with one important question:
“What will you do next quarter that improves your community?”

Quarterly Locations

The Venue Is the Message.

Every Supper Club dinner takes place in an extraordinary location carefully selected to inspire meaningful conversations and lasting partnerships.

Winter Dinner • January

The Greenbrier

White Sulphur Springs, West Virginia

A National Historic Landmark that has welcomed U.S. Presidents for decades. Members gather inside one of its elegant private dining rooms surrounded by thousands of acres of mountain beauty.

Highlights

  • Private dining room (18–24 guests)
  • Presidential Suite cocktail reception
  • Optional estate access the following morning

Spring Dinner • April

Private Yacht

Boston Harbor, Massachusetts

An unforgettable evening aboard a private yacht departing Boston Harbor as the sun sets over the city skyline.

Highlights

  • Private yacht charter
  • Four-course dinner prepared by a private chef
  • Harbor and skyline views

Summer Dinner • July

The Quin

Back Bay, Boston

An intimate luxury dining experience inside one of Boston’s most prestigious boutique hotels.

Highlights

  • Exclusive private dining room
  • Curated seasonal menu
  • Optional overnight accommodations

Autumn Dinner • October

Private Estate

Newport, Rhode Island

An elegant oceanfront estate where members reflect on the year, celebrate accomplishments, and discuss future opportunities.

Highlights

  • Private estate buyout
  • Oceanfront gathering
  • Annual Deal Roundtable

Who Sits at the Table

Real Movers. Real Shakers.

Supper Club is reserved for women who have already built successful investment portfolios, businesses, and leadership positions. Members are invited because of what they have accomplished—and because of what they will accomplish next.

Portfolio Operator

Owns and manages multiple rental properties while expanding into larger acquisitions.

Capital Allocator

Leads investment funds and actively seeks new partnership opportunities.

Commercial Operator

Develops commercial and mixed-use projects that transform communities.

Private Lender

Provides private capital to investment projects and partnership opportunities.

Community Investor

Focuses on revitalizing neighborhoods while building long-term wealth.

Anchor Investor

Structures syndications and leads investment groups into larger opportunities.

At the Table, We Discuss

The Conversations That Actually Matter.

Every Supper Club dinner begins with one guiding question that leads to meaningful conversations, investment opportunities, and strategic partnerships.

Policy & Politics

Housing policy, zoning, tax law, and emerging opportunities.

Economics & Markets

Interest rates, migration trends, inflation, and market analysis.

Deals & Capital

Joint ventures, funding opportunities, acquisitions, and partnerships.

Community & Legacy

Building stronger communities while creating long-term impact.

You May Be Exactly Who We're Looking For.

Supper Club membership is by invitation. Submit your request or nominate another qualified investor for consideration. Every application is personally reviewed by the Her REIA Membership Committee.